I'll admit it. I definitely consume my fair share of celebrity gossip. It is a vice but creates a kind of fantasy escape from life. When I am tired of reading about political scandals and the economy, the gossip is light stories that make life seems better.
I know everyone has been talking about it but - Holy Sandra Bullock.
As a single girl who deals with the ups and downs of dating, you can feel isolated in your lack of luck in love sometimes. Frustrated, annoyed, deflated. The range of emotions is enough to make a bipolar sufferer dizzy.
As the grass is always greener, you tend to become a bit self-absorbed over your own love life with the assumption that everyone is much better off than you. You assume this about your married friends or friends with long term boyfriends. You assume everyone else in the entire world is doing better than you in the love department. You question yourself, your decisions and wonder if you are just too picky.
But before the gloom and doom settle over your thoughts, something like the Sandra Bullock scandal occurs.
When you think of someone like Sandra Bullock, she is a woman who along with Julia Roberts could very well be considered America's sweetheart. Bullock appears to be fun, gorgeous and the envy of millions of women everywhere and less neurotic than some other actresses. Granted, she might be completely off her rocker, but she has always seemed to be one of those down to earth types to me. Bullock, by all accounts, appears to have it all. This is what you would typically believe until her husband is outed for cheating on her for 11 months with some skanky tattoo "model" while she was filming the Blind Side. (A great movie, by the way.)
Holy Christmas. Clearly, there is no magic formula. You are not alone is having bad luck. There are some people suffering from worse luck in love than you. Way worse. You cannot even complain about your own situation when you read about what happened to Bullock. Because it is so public (really stinks for Bullock) it forces you to re-evaluate. Your attitude is bumped back up and a smile reappears on your face. Close your eyes and hold on for the ride.
